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In continuation of my last blog… My trip to Philly ended well, although the club had to close on Saturday night, due to a State of Emergency, and I was stranded in my hotel room, alone, then my flight was cancelled and delayed until Wed! The club let me perform on Sunday night instead, so I got to finish up my last 2 shows. Of course, it was very slow, so I really had to push myself to do great anyway. I did my paint show and turned myself into a hot fudge sundae while sitting on a giant champagne glass that came up from the stage! That was a lot of fun and a huge success! Pretty tasty too – and the crowd sure enjoyed it. To top it off, the manager kept on trying the airlines to try and get me home sooner, as I had shoots scheduled for Tues and wed, and what luck, I got the last seat out on Southwest, Monday afternoon.

After spending a very long and delayed day of traveling, I got home, unpacked, and re-packed my outfits for my shoot – early the next morning. I wasn’t feeling well at all, I assumed I was just run down from all the traveling and bad weather. So I got myself up and ready, and went to work. It turned out really well, I shot with Cody Cummings for his website – and guys, if you look it up, he has a bi-sexual website so be warned! It was a great shoot, super hot! And we used condoms – which most of you know, I feel much safer doing that. I thought I had never worked with a bi-sexual guy before, but then I thought long and hard, there‘s been quite a few porn stars who shall remain nameless, that are also into guys! But it really doesn’t matter to me, each to their own you know. Hey, and more power to bi-sexuals, you get the best of both worlds!

After the shoot, I really started to get sick, and ended up having to re-schedule Wednesdays shoot. It was with Cody again, and he was very understanding about it. Gotta love professionalism! I can’t help that I have a cold and don’t want to spread it around. I spent all of Wed in bed, then couldn’t take it anymore, so I tried to convince myself I wasn’t sick by running a few errands here and there, cleaning the house etc… That did not help! All my close friends know that I cannot sit still for 5 mins, I can’t relax, I feel like I always have to be doing something.

Had a friend come round with a bottle of wine for me on Xmas eve – so of course we drank it, felt a little better. Lol. And spoke to my family in Australia via Skype, so jealous! Christmas day I spent catching up on things that I’ve been putting off because I’ve been too busy or distracted. So it was the perfect day to get a lot of work done. No distractions other the occasional Merry Xmas txt/email.

So right now, I’ve finished all I had to do on my to-do list today, which included alot of laundry and going through resumes and emails of prospective design partners for my lingerie line. Which I’ll be interviewing all week. Hopefully, I find someone great who is easy to work with, and we can get this done ASAP.

I’m off to go relax and watch a movie.

Stay tuned….

Well it’s been a very successful 2 weeks of featuring. First in Anaheim at Imperial Showgirls – where the crowd was huge, the tips were fantastic and everyone treated me so well at the club. I did my usual lotion ‘stick it to Monica’ show, and then a new show which I’d never tried before, with whipped cream and cherries, which went down extremely well! I squirted whipped cream all over my nipples and pussy, then dipped the cherries in the cream, sucked on them, and passed out whipped cream and cherries to the customers with my teeth! Very creative I thought!

And in between that gig, and getting ready for the next gig, I moved house! I can’t believe I managed to get so much done in such a time crunch. New place is great, much bigger and nicer. I couldn’t pass up the bargain, so it was a spare of the moment decision to move. We all know how spontaneous I am! Also a great excuse to have a house-warming party! I want lots of plants, and candles! That’s not asking too much is it? Lol.

The second gig was in Philly, last night at The Penthouse club, Wall to Wall crowd, I could have stayed on stage for 30mins! It was amazing. Everyone at the club treated me very well. I always start my performances with the lotion show, then I did rides for $5, which the crowd couldn’t get enough of! I peformed another new show, with candle wax, where everyone got to pour the hot wax all over my naked body, SO HOT – literally! Lol. The wax didn’t burn me at all, good old mainstays from Walmart! Everyone loved that show too, so these new shows will definitely be a permanent part of my routine from now on! And of course, the famous ‘Cooter ball’, in which I ended up giving away 2 DVD’s, just cause I was feeling generous!

Unfortunately, this damn snowstorm came into town, and we are now in a state of emergency! So I’m stuck in my hotel room all night, the club had to close. So I won’t be doing my other 2 shows. L Not happy, but they definitely want me to come back, and also work in their Detroit club. So it will all work out in the end.

The airport is closed, and I’m supposed to be flying back to LA tomorrow, but we’ll see what happens. I’ll probably be sitting at the airport for 6 hours, waiting for my flight. Good thing I just bought a new book to read ’the one minute millionaire’. Very interesting!

It’s times like these that I really appreciate living in LA, we don’t realize how lucky we are to have such great weather. This is very eerie, it’s like a ghost town outside, all I can see from my window is white powder everywhere, and I’m hearing the occasional siren go off. No cars, no people, nothing but snow! Which under any other circumstance, I would have loved to go and play in. But it cost me a job! So I’m not exactly thrilled.

I had to settle for room service for dinner, which FYI, is terrible! I don’t know why, but even in the nicest hotels, you rarely seem to get a good meal. Maybe I’m just really picky because I love to cook – and do it very well!

On a happier note, I’m nominated for best all girl scene at the AVN awards, for ‘The Violation of Harmony’. That scene definitely deserves it! I had my foot up Harmony’s pussy – you can’t beat that!

And here is my latest interview if you’d like to read:

http://www.xcritic.com/columns/column.php?columnID=1786Stay tuned……

Luv Mon xoxo

First of all, I’d like to thank all of you who filled out and completed my survey ‘What do men really want’. I have selected, randomly, a lucky winner of my autographed DVD ‘Deep Inside Monica Mayhem‘ and a poster, congratulations to Phil from Forest Hills, NY!

A lot of you guys filled in just about every answer to every question! Which made it a bit hard to really figure out the statistics. But here are the basic results anyway:

1. If you like watching porn, which do you prefer?

Most popular is gonzo, then very close coming in 2^nd was Feature Films

2. What type of lingerie do you like to see on women?

Most popular is bra and panties set, then 2^nd was Garter belts and stockings

3. Do you like to use toys with your female partner in the bedroom? If so, what do you prefer?

Very popular is Vibrators, then 2^nd were Dildos

4. Do you like role playing in the bedroom? If so, what do you like your partner to wear?

Almost everyone said School Girl, then 2^nd it was a tie between French maid and secretary

5. What type of porn scenes do you prefer to watch?

Mostly Boy/Girl, but it was a close call with Girl/Girl

6. What type of fetish films do you prefer to watch?

I’m surprised Milf killed it! Then Secretary in 2^nd, I would have thought it was young girl!

7. What is your idea of a great date?

Shockingly, Stay home, cook for your girl was the winner, (really guys? I’ve only ever had one guy cook for me in my entire life! Maybe I’m dating the wrong guys!), then going out to dinner came 2^nd.

8. What type of foreplay do you like?

Winner by a long shot – both giving and receiving oral, then massage came in 2^nd

9. What most attracts you and keeps you coming back on an adult website?

Video clips were the most popular, then it was a tie in 2^nd between photo sections and inter-action with the star.