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Well, it’s been a fun couple of weeks for me, I actually attended a super bowl party, and I really don’t watch sports, except for fights and racing (cars), but I had a great time. People had to keep explaining the game to me, lol, but I think I understand how it works now! It’s more the vibe of the crowd that makes it a great day, rather than just watching the game itself. And of course, knocking back a few drinks!

I’ve spent a lot of time shopping for fabrics and having meetings for my lingerie line. Wow is it a lot of work! I was in heaven looking at fabrics and picturing how I could also re-decorate my place with all this great material for drapes. I have my first fitting tomorrow with the first set of bra and panties, only 9 more to go now.

I attended the Xbiz awards last week, which was a lot of fun, always great to catch up with old friends in the industry. Some great performances on stage too. I’ve attached a pic from that night. Only problem was, I had an early meeting the next morning so I had to leave at 11pm. Had a nice glass of wine, chatted to a bunch of people, and bailed before I got too excited and possibly have changed my mind about being responsible!

I shot the cover of High Speed Magazine a couple of days ago, with an awesome green Chopper. I was totally in my element. Love bikes! We shot on a train track in downtown LA, that was great, so dangerous! I was in a crazy mood and decided to climb up on one of the trains to pose on the ladder. Will post some pics when I get them. You’ll see me at highspeedmag.com

In continuation of my last blog… My trip to Philly ended well, although the club had to close on Saturday night, due to a State of Emergency, and I was stranded in my hotel room, alone, then my flight was cancelled and delayed until Wed! The club let me perform on Sunday night instead, so I got to finish up my last 2 shows. Of course, it was very slow, so I really had to push myself to do great anyway. I did my paint show and turned myself into a hot fudge sundae while sitting on a giant champagne glass that came up from the stage! That was a lot of fun and a huge success! Pretty tasty too – and the crowd sure enjoyed it. To top it off, the manager kept on trying the airlines to try and get me home sooner, as I had shoots scheduled for Tues and wed, and what luck, I got the last seat out on Southwest, Monday afternoon.

After spending a very long and delayed day of traveling, I got home, unpacked, and re-packed my outfits for my shoot – early the next morning. I wasn’t feeling well at all, I assumed I was just run down from all the traveling and bad weather. So I got myself up and ready, and went to work. It turned out really well, I shot with Cody Cummings for his website – and guys, if you look it up, he has a bi-sexual website so be warned! It was a great shoot, super hot! And we used condoms – which most of you know, I feel much safer doing that. I thought I had never worked with a bi-sexual guy before, but then I thought long and hard, there‘s been quite a few porn stars who shall remain nameless, that are also into guys! But it really doesn’t matter to me, each to their own you know. Hey, and more power to bi-sexuals, you get the best of both worlds!

After the shoot, I really started to get sick, and ended up having to re-schedule Wednesdays shoot. It was with Cody again, and he was very understanding about it. Gotta love professionalism! I can’t help that I have a cold and don’t want to spread it around. I spent all of Wed in bed, then couldn’t take it anymore, so I tried to convince myself I wasn’t sick by running a few errands here and there, cleaning the house etc… That did not help! All my close friends know that I cannot sit still for 5 mins, I can’t relax, I feel like I always have to be doing something.

Had a friend come round with a bottle of wine for me on Xmas eve – so of course we drank it, felt a little better. Lol. And spoke to my family in Australia via Skype, so jealous! Christmas day I spent catching up on things that I’ve been putting off because I’ve been too busy or distracted. So it was the perfect day to get a lot of work done. No distractions other the occasional Merry Xmas txt/email.

So right now, I’ve finished all I had to do on my to-do list today, which included alot of laundry and going through resumes and emails of prospective design partners for my lingerie line. Which I’ll be interviewing all week. Hopefully, I find someone great who is easy to work with, and we can get this done ASAP.

I’m off to go relax and watch a movie.

Stay tuned….

Feels like forever since I’ve blogged. I guess my mind has been busy elsewhere, being the little entrepreneur that I am these days. My book ‘Absolute Mayhem – confessions of an Aussie pornstar’ is finally released! http://randomhouse.com.au/Books/Default.aspx?Page=Book&ID=9781741666427 monica@monicamayhem.com

I am filled with anxiety and excitement, hoping that it will be a number one seller. According to everyone who has read the book so far, it’s a hit! And it’s a total dream for me to actually be listed on the Random House website as an ‘Author’. I’ve been writing my whole life, and never thought that I would actually end up writing a book to be published by one of the biggest publishers in the world! Though its only available in Australia so far, however, we are working on getting US and European rights to publish overseas.

And to top all that off, I actually have a 6 page spread and story, out in Marie Claire Australia Nov issue! I’m very happy with the way it came out, and the photos are amazing, so old Hollywood glam. Lets hope the media are kind to me when I go back to Australia in a couple of weeks.

My lingerie line is coming along, it’s just a matter of getting my ideas across, and making sure everything is exactly the way I picture it. It’s a lot of work, and also a lot of fun. I’m in no rush at all to get this project finished, I wouldn’t want to put my name and approval on anything that I wasn’t 100% happy with.

I’ve been madly researching health and nutrition lately, to the point where, I may even write my own cookbook – don’t quote me on that, it could take years at this rate! But it’s very interesting, some of the things I’m learning, and I’m actually putting together meal plans for myself, which pretty much takes a whole day to create, talk about tedious work! But it’s all worth it to feel super fit and happy with yourself. I’ve always been somewhat of a health and fitness freak, but I’m taking it to the next level now!

I’ve been getting a lot of requests for custom videos, and I’ve decided that, given the current state of the economy, I’d like to offer a special deal to my fans. I’m offering a 30 min solo video – to the description of your choice, along with a free pair of panties – worn in the video, and free shipping (if within the US), all for US$350. The original value is $600, so I’d say this is a bit of a bargain! And I’m happy to do it, if it helps to get someone off, and put a smile on their face! For more information, please email

I’ve also scheduled a live 1hr chat for all of my Monicamayhem.com members, on Saturday 10^th Oct at 11pm Est. I still also go on imlive.com whenever I have some free time. I try to advertise those chats on my website and myspace beforehand, although sometimes I just show up unexpectedly.

Aside from running around like a mad woman, organizing 50 different things before I go to Australia for my big tour, I’m actually going back in the studio this Friday to finish up a couple of songs. I’ve decided to do everything on my own, including starting my own record label. Yes, I know, I’m crazy taking on all this work, but hey, if you want something done right and immediately, you’ve got to take matters into your own hands! And that’s exactly what I’m doing, so stay tuned for my next blog with hopefully some more exciting news from the Empire of Mayhem!

Luv Mon

xoxo