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Feature dancing is not what it used to be, so I’m actually contemplating stripping in LA! I think I’d prefer to not travel so much as I have been, and just stick around town and work for a while. Though I am headed to Chicago July 16-18 for the Exxxtacy convention, where I will be signing and selling merch and pics.

Well, I never quite took a vacation, though I did have a great time upgrading my apartment and running amok the last month! I’ve been out and about a lot lately. Had a great time seeing the Murderdolls at the Keyclub last week, and went to the after party at their house, good times!
Went to Porn star Karaoke on Tuesday night, and oh boy, drank a little too much Patron – no-body should have let me sing that night! Haha, but I was having a great time, letting loose for a change, and don’t really care what they say in the press! Though I hope there’s no terrible photos of me, since there were quite a few photographers there.
For the last couple of months, I’ve had a tough decision to make, regarding running as a candidate for senate for the Australian Sex Party. At first, it would seem like a great idea, however, after looking into things further, I decided it would be against my best interests right now, and would not be a good career move at this time, though I do still support the policies of the Australian Sex Party and wish them all the best! If your interested, check out www.australiansexparty.org for more info.
Last week, I shot a feature in which I was the lead female. I played a ghostwriter, for a ‘rockstar‘, the movie is called ‘Party like me – memoirs of a rockstar’, in which I did a solo scene and a boy/girl with Bon Jonsyn for his company ‘Pimp Luck Productions‘, Chris King shot the photo which I have attached. I had an Australian film crew come to set, who were filming a documentary about porn, they filmed me while shooting, and also an interview.
It’s quite depressing how slow the porn industry is. Although for some it’s great, however, I’ve been around a long time and shot a lot of movies and magazines! I don’t think I’ll transition into doing all the really crazy stuff that most girls are doing these days, not even anal, and therefore no double A, DP’s, ATM’s, gangbangs etc… Feature dancing is not what it used to be, so I’m actually contemplating stripping in LA! I think I’d prefer to not travel so much as I have been, and just stick around town and work for a while. Though I am headed to Chicago July 16-18 for the Exxxtacy convention, where I will be signing and selling merch and pics.
Don’t get me wrong, I am still down to shoot! There‘s just not that much work. I work damn hard to stay in shape and spend a lot of money on keeping myself looking good, and I’m not going to go through all that for nothing! I still love shooting porn, and really miss the acting side of things – yes I know, it may be cheesy to some, and a lot of you fast forward those parts, but it’s a hell of a lot of fun for me!
Actually, tomorrow I’m shooting some BG pics and vid for my website www.monicamayhem.com. I update my site as much as my schedule allows. I don’t just sit around waiting for work. I’m always doing something to stay busy. But then again, don’t want to burn myself and over-shoot too much content, since there is so much of it for free on the internet, it’s hard to get people to join websites!
Well, back to going through photos for press interviews. For daily updates in the life of Mayhem, be sure to follow me on www.twitter.com/monicamayhem and to pre-order my auto-biography ‘Absolute Mayhem : Secret Confessions of a porn star’ please go to www.amazon.com, www.barnesandnoble.com, www.booksamillion.com, and www.borders.com
Ciao for now! Mon xoxo

In continuation of my last blog… My trip to Philly ended well, although the club had to close on Saturday night, due to a State of Emergency, and I was stranded in my hotel room, alone, then my flight was cancelled and delayed until Wed! The club let me perform on Sunday night instead, so I got to finish up my last 2 shows. Of course, it was very slow, so I really had to push myself to do great anyway. I did my paint show and turned myself into a hot fudge sundae while sitting on a giant champagne glass that came up from the stage! That was a lot of fun and a huge success! Pretty tasty too – and the crowd sure enjoyed it. To top it off, the manager kept on trying the airlines to try and get me home sooner, as I had shoots scheduled for Tues and wed, and what luck, I got the last seat out on Southwest, Monday afternoon.

After spending a very long and delayed day of traveling, I got home, unpacked, and re-packed my outfits for my shoot – early the next morning. I wasn’t feeling well at all, I assumed I was just run down from all the traveling and bad weather. So I got myself up and ready, and went to work. It turned out really well, I shot with Cody Cummings for his website – and guys, if you look it up, he has a bi-sexual website so be warned! It was a great shoot, super hot! And we used condoms – which most of you know, I feel much safer doing that. I thought I had never worked with a bi-sexual guy before, but then I thought long and hard, there‘s been quite a few porn stars who shall remain nameless, that are also into guys! But it really doesn’t matter to me, each to their own you know. Hey, and more power to bi-sexuals, you get the best of both worlds!

After the shoot, I really started to get sick, and ended up having to re-schedule Wednesdays shoot. It was with Cody again, and he was very understanding about it. Gotta love professionalism! I can’t help that I have a cold and don’t want to spread it around. I spent all of Wed in bed, then couldn’t take it anymore, so I tried to convince myself I wasn’t sick by running a few errands here and there, cleaning the house etc… That did not help! All my close friends know that I cannot sit still for 5 mins, I can’t relax, I feel like I always have to be doing something.

Had a friend come round with a bottle of wine for me on Xmas eve – so of course we drank it, felt a little better. Lol. And spoke to my family in Australia via Skype, so jealous! Christmas day I spent catching up on things that I’ve been putting off because I’ve been too busy or distracted. So it was the perfect day to get a lot of work done. No distractions other the occasional Merry Xmas txt/email.

So right now, I’ve finished all I had to do on my to-do list today, which included alot of laundry and going through resumes and emails of prospective design partners for my lingerie line. Which I’ll be interviewing all week. Hopefully, I find someone great who is easy to work with, and we can get this done ASAP.

I’m off to go relax and watch a movie.

Stay tuned….

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I am craving just one really good nights sleep! If I could just fall asleep easily and sleep more than 4hrs straight, I would be so happy! I refuse to take sleeping pills. With all the shit that I had put my body through over the years – back in the days of partying my ass off, I’m too scared to take anything that isnt herbal. And no, weed does not help me sleep! lol. But is great every now and then to take my mind off things.

Juneau Wisconsin was definately an experience. The club itself was beautiful, you didnt feel like you were in the middle of nowhere when you walk into that club. The girls were hot, and most of them were actually friendly towards me. Thats all i’m going to say.

I was shocked to hear about Michael Jacksons death. Very sad, he was such a genius, there will never be anyone like him. I dont believe he was a pedophile, just a man who never had a real childhood, and wanted to re-live that, living in a fantasy world.

Moving on,  I just came back from shooting a very interesting reality type show – which is also going to be a porn flick, but hopefully they’ll sell the reality part to MTV or something. I can’t talk about it though, sorry! We’ll just have to wait and see what happens with it.

Aside from that, i’m just busy trying to get things back in order in my office and around the house. Always so much work to catch up on when you get back in town. And being tired all the time, doesn’t help achieve much! But I’m pushing myself anyway. I wont let this insomnia hold me back!

stay tuned…

I love porn, I love dancing, everything’s fantastic, my life is a bed of roses. I love my fans, I love the haters, I love everything. Oh my god!

Now, you still think I’m a whiney bitch? I bet this blog isn’t negative enough for you to post on your gossip sites, therefore, no room for negative feedback. Wow, wouldn’t life be boring if it was that fucking perfect.

I’m definately not a negative person, nor am I a whiney bitch. So why do I let these assholes get to me? I guess it just sux when people dont really know you, yet they judge you so harshly from a couple of honest blogs.

All I got left to say is ‘WHATEVER’. I’m over it, and I’m not gonna give these people anything more to trash my name with. Since they obviously dont post the nice blogs that I write, especially the ones where I thank my friends and fans for being so cool and sticking by me through all the good and bad times.

And I still mean that!

All my luv

mon xoxo