I’ll be featuring at the amazing new Penthouse club in Philadelphia, 18/19 Dec. If you live close by, hope to see you there! I’ll be performing 2 shows a night, and signing and selling merchandise including my autobiography, dvd’s, posters, polaroids, and lapdances.
We get to Vegas, and head straight to the VIP lounge at the Luxor, where we were given 2 huge suites! They were awesome, living room, bar, dining room, bedroom, 2 bathrooms with a Jacuzzi. This is the only way to roll in Vegas! One of my friends apparently looks like Criss Angel, so of course, everywhere we went, people were staring and asking him for photos. Lol. So if you hear any rumors that I’m dating Criss, its not true!
We went to some great parties and clubs, and met at ‘Eye Candy’ the bar at Mandalay Bay, every night, since that’s where all the people from the Exotic Dancer convention went after the shows. Didn’t make it to the convention itself, but met a lot of great people anyway.
We attended the ‘Exotic Dancer’ awards show at the Hard Rock Hotel, great venue and many great performances from some of the top performers in the industry. I didn’t actually win, but it was nice to be nominated. And I got to wear my awesome new dress – I’ll be posting the pics on my website and a few on myspace too!
The awards after party was a lot of fun, everyone was there. And as usual, I ended up making out with a couple of girls! Haha. I’m friends with both of them, so it’s not like I was being a wild whore or anything! Also got to meet Vinnie – the drummer from Pantera, one of my all time favorite bands.
I will admit, there was some girl on girl action (with myself and a friend) in my hot tub back at the hotel! And we have a lot of hilarious video footage of me and a group of friends (not having sex), but one thing that cracked us up the most, is me acting like a gonzo porn director, and all you hear is my voice, being a smartass to everyone, and suddenly my hand creeps out in front of the camera, trying to pull my friends top down. LOL.
We ended up staying one more night, because we were having so much fun. I think that’s the most fun I’ve had in Vegas in a long time. Although I’m paying for it now, my throat is killing me from second-hand smoking and all that freezing cold air conditioning in every casino, but I’m doing everything I can to stay healthy.
Over the weekend I worked on a mainstream movie called ‘Mommy and Me’, it’s a comedy in which Stephen Bauer (who played Manny in Scarface) was one of the lead actors. That was very cool working with him, considering Scarface is one of my favorite movies!
I had a lot of fun, shooting in Malibu – actually at a location I’ve shot many adult movies at in the past, way up on a cliff over-looking Malibu. Absolutely beautiful view. I played a bridesmaid along with Nikki Benz and another mainstream actress who was also very beautiful, I’m so bad with names! We had quite a few scenes and a decent amount of dialogue. I still love acting and definitely want to do more of it.
Well that’s about it for now! I’m having some friends come over to my place to catch up on our favorite show ‘True Blood’ which sadly, the season is ending in 2 weeks!
Ciao for now!
Luv Mon xoxo
I am very happy to have received such great feedback from everyone on the condom issue in my last blog. Some people say it ruins the fantasy when they’re watching porn, but for the most part, people agree that our health should be first priority, and alot of fans dont care whether there’s a condom in the scene or not – as long as they dont see the guy putting it on.
Well I’m currently in Juneau – Wisconsin not Alaska. And there’s absolutely nothing around really. I’m in an apartment rather than a hotel – cause there are none! I just finished cleaning the hell of out it – cause i’m a clean freak, bought some flowers, candles and incense to feel more at home. And alot of healthy food so I can cook every day. That way I know i’m going to be eating great meals!
I went for a long walk, worked out. And currently doing laundry, checking emails, talking to friends on skype and aol. Thank god for internet! And TV! I think I would go crazy otherwise. And I guess I can forget about getting any sleep with all the trucks driving by starting at 5am! I suffer from insomnia in general, something i’m trying to cure with acupuncture and chinese herbs. But a bit hard when on the road so much.
I try to look at the brightside of everything. I’m just happy to be working. I have 2 days off before I start featuring at this club, Silk, here in Juneau – I really hope people will drive out here to see me! Its full nude, full alcohol. The only county in WI with those rules. But Summerfest (a huge rock music festival) starts on Thursday in Milwaukee – where I was last week, doh! So fingers crossed anyway.
Now on another issue, bitchy girls. Seriously, some really bad fucking attitudes from alot of strippers in every club I go to. And i’m so friendly to everyone, I say hello, and just get filthy looks. Some girls are really nice and supportive, dont get me wrong, but god damn do these other bitches realize how fucking rude they are.
Why spend your whole life being bitter and rude to everyone. Its such an ugly trait. And your never gonna get ahead in life with that kind of behaviour. I’ve worked my arse off to get to where i’m at, to get these feature gigs – to help bring customers into the clubs so the girls in turn, can make more money too. I guess some people will just be haters their whole life. And live in misery. I feel sorry for them. But if it wasn’t for my controlled anger management. I would get in some serious fights.
Ahhhhhhhhh yeah, got that off my chest! Thats all for now!
stay tuned….
luv mon xoxo
Had a very chilled weekend, which was nice considering all the partying i’ve done on the road lately! Friday night, went to a friends place and watched movies. Last night, went to a friends place and watched the fights. A little disappointed that it didnt last longer. But what a great fight! Manny Pacquiao has got to be the fastest boxer I’ve ever seen! I used to do muay-thai kick-boxing for many years, so i’m more into that and UFC rather than boxing, but holy shit, I was very entertained. I thought I kept missing bits of the fight, cause he was so damn quick that you couldn’t see him coming half the time.
Today, I went over to Jessica Jaymes place to shoot content for my website monicamayhem.com. Couldn’t believe how quick we shot all that. Did a solo scene and some pics. And then a bgg with Jessica and Johnnie Castle. It was a smokin’ hot scene, of course, with a hot brunette and a hot blonde together with a hot guy! We were right into the scene when the camera guy tells us its time for the pop shot, we were all like ‘wow, really’.
That doesn’t usually happen when your shooting a scene, its usually the other way around, ‘uh, how much more footage do you need?’ lol. You really dont need to shoot such long scenes, since they get edited to around 15mins anyway. Unless of course its for a very artsy movie or big budget feature where you have to get every angle right, hardcore, softcore, and the lighting has to be perfect. Then I dont mind shooting for hours cause I know its gonna look great.
So right now I’m thinking i’m going to do a live webcam show on imlive.com tonight at 8pm, since its been so long! And i’m all done up, hair and makeup ready. So why not keep on going!
talk soon
mon xoxo
okay, so this really isn’t about me. Or perhaps its more about my perversions. You see, I’m in my hotel in Albuquerque, New Mexico. And right now, I would be sleeping after a long night of dancing and signing at 2 different clubs. However, the couple next door, can’t seem to get enough. SEX that is. I kid you not, they’ve been going at it for at least 2hrs now. I know this because their bed keeps banging up against my wall, and every now and then I hear moans from some girl.
As much as this turns me on. Since I’m a voyuer and love to hear people having sex. I cant help but feel sorry for this girl, because either, the guy cant come. Or he thinks marathon sex is a turn on. Well, I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but most girls can’t handle hours of sex. Either physically, because you get sore down there, or you’ve cum so many times and enoughs enough, or your worn out and just want to go to sleep already. Unless of course, your 100% totally in love, thats different, and this has only happened to me once or twice. It’s like, I want him inside me for hours. Or I may just want to feel his arms around me, and his naked body right up close to mine.
But hey, I could be wrong here, some girls get off on hours of sex. Everyone is built differently. I for one, love sex, but not hours of it. I love foreplay, teasing, touching, kissing, I love the first time with a guy, the initial ‘are we gonna do it’ question in your head (providing the guy is not blatantly forceful and cocky about having sex). The, no talking, heavy breathing, grinding up against each other, until things naturally lead up to sex. Now that is a great way to describe it! Wow, is it just me or does that just sound so hot? And dont tell me you cant relate. Cause otherwise, I might be considered a nymphomaniac.
And you know, sometimes, I love whispering dirty thoughts to the guy, not out loud like we do on camera, but just softly, is such a turn on to me. And as long as the guy is reciprocating, and not asking stupid questions like ‘r u okay’, then things should work out fine.
Hey, I’m giving you all free advice here! Dont turn off your partner by talking too much during sex, unless its to say how hot they are, or how much they turn you on, or what you would like them to do to you or vice versa. We dont want to hear about your problems, or what time you have to get up the next day. Just shut up, and do as your told! Trust me, you’ll make many women, very happy. You give and you get. What goes around, comes around – that’s my daily motto! And dont forget it!!!
xoxo Mon
I did a shoot for Penthouse video yesterday. The working title was ‘milf and cookies’, uh, not sure if they’re going to use that name, lol, but pretty funny.
Anyway, the scenario was that I was a rich horny biatch, and my girl (India Summers), brings me her latest boy toy (Chris Johnson), with whom I have sex with while she is watching. There’s a little bit of dialogue before the scene, very seductive.
Also did a 15min striptease – which no doubt they will edit beautifully, i’m sure, judging by the way it was shot.
All in all, fairly long day, but had a great time, hot scene, and afterwards, ended up at a recording studio where my friend was recording his latest album. Sounded amazing from the little bit that I heard. Wish I could tell you more, but will have to reveal in the future!
Ciao for now
Mon xoxo
I love shoots where there’s a bunch of smokin’ hot girls on the set, and you spend most of the day just hanging out. This shoot was for PPV, so I’m not sure where it will end up or even what the name of it will be.
I did 2 girl/girl scenes – one with the lovely Brooke Belle, who rocks as always! And the other was an orgy, in which I spent most of my time with another hottie, Kayla Paige – another girl I love to work with. I also did a little striptease and solo clip.
We shot up in this huge house on top of a hill in Chatsworth – I’ve actually shot in this house quite a few times over the years! haha. Beautiful view of the valley up there.
The funniest thing was, the girl who was the photographer on set, turns out to be my drummers singer in his other band! I think I surprised her with that one. But no beef there, she was way cool – and the girls were drooling over her too.
Good times!
So I get a call Wednesday morning to say that the shoot is back on and they have me booked on a flight at 10.30pm that night. This time the flight was actually on time and I was able to leave. But OMG, has anyone ever flown on Spirit Airlines? Not only did they spell my name wrong for the second time in one week, but they nickel and dime you for everything. Although I did not pay for the ticket, but if you wanted to bring luggage, thats an extra $15. A window seat an extra $10, an exit seat $30. Then they charge $3 for a bottle of water, which you have to pay with a credit card. (I came prepared however, but everyone was bitchin’ on the plane). There is no real food, you can buy unhealthy snacks though. The seats are sooooo crammed, even I couldn’t get comfortable, my legs are kinda long, but not that long!
So I couldn’t sleep at all, then I arrive, driver picks me up at 6.30am. Takes me to some loft. Leaves me a key. I dont know what the hell is going on cause nobody gave me any info for the shoot. So I fall asleep of course cause I’m exhausted at this point. Next thing you know, I wake up to someone banging on the door at 11.30am. And 30 missed calls on my phone! Apparently I was supposed to meet in the lobby at 10.30am – thanks for telling me! And nobody had a key. Why the hell did they leave me the only key? like I was gonna go somewhere.
So the director is all pissed off, and it wasn’t even my fault. I had to shower at the office – with no towel! Then of course, everything was so rushed and stressful. I wasn’t even able to eat. I can’t believe no-one even went to get me breakfast while I was sitting in makeup for an hour and a half! WTF!!! So we finally get to the other location, where I’m the dealer in a poker game. I had to quickly learn texas hold-em, but I got it down quick.
We played so many rounds. And took soooo many pictures, and finally, get down to the sex. On the pool table, the director kept getting frustrated at certain positions – I nearly lost it, but I am a pro after all. Dont fucking tell me to do something that just can’t be done. Or strain my damn neck just so you can have your perfect angle. I’ll do what I know looks sexy, what I’ve done oh so many times before! So I put up with the painful positions on the table, and the bruises I’ve sustained from the shoot – like I’ve done so many times in the past. And I was happy in the end, to get paid a little extra – for my time being wasted the other night.
Happy to be home, to take care of all my unfinished business. Dont think I’m complaining, I’m just sharing my travel and shooting adventures with you. I’m very grateful to still be working after the whole economic crisis in this country.
TTYS, Mon xoxo
okay, so first, I drive all the way to Orange County for one of my best friends birthdays on saturday, only for him to get arrested and put in jail before i even get a chance to see him, for something that happened 6 years ago that never got resolved, cause he’s been sober for 2 years now, so it wasnt a dui or anything like that. I ended up driving back home to LA, sober of course.
Then, as I spent the rest of my weekend, preparing to go on a last minute shoot in Florida – yes folks, it takes alot of prep before a shoot, tanning, gym, nails, hair, laundry, picking out outfits, packing, getting your STD test, having someone take care of my spoilt kitty ’smokey’ while i’m away, and I like to clean the house spotless so its nice and relaxing when I get home.
Well, I just got back from the airport, after checking in, going through LAX security – which is never a breeze, hanging out at the gate for 2 hrs, the flight was at 10.30pm. They didn’t announce to us until 11pm that the flight is delayed till 8am! WTF! My call time for the shoot is 8am in FL, so there goes that job. Along with the PA dance gig I lost this week due to the club losing money recently because of current economic conditions. So I feel your pain people! Dont think this crisis is not affecting the porn industry too!
Anyway, I requested they fly me out the night before and put me up in a hotel, (cause you know, I’m a pisces and intuitive/psychic to a degree, I knew something like this would happen) but apparently they weren’t too concerned whether or not I had any sleep the night before the shoot – I mean really, who sleeps well on a plane, and its only a 5hr flight, so realistically, i would have maybe had 3hrs sleep, if any sleep at all.
Wow, the things we do for porn huh! So we’ll see what happens this week, and I’ll keep you updated on the juicy details. Speaking of juicy, my friend brought over some hot Swedish rocker lookin boy before I left. Damnnn, and I was not exactly looking hot at the time, she didn’t warn me damn it! lol. I’m sorry to all the clean cut, non-tattooed, non pierced, non dark/colored hair rocker lookin boys out there, with their dark clothes and studded accessories, but holy fuck, that is such a turn on for me!!! Dont get me wrong, I like normal boys sometimes, but mostly, you gotta look bad-ass and luv to rock out with me!
Peace and love
mon xoxo
wow how time flies. Its been kind of a hectic week or so for me. I feel like I’m in Law school, all the research I’ve been doing about a situation that has just got way out of hand. Dont ever trust anyone in LA, even if your referred to someone by a bunch of different friends – do not trust anyone!!!
I’ve also been editing my book, which actually takes alot of time. Cause you dont want to say the wrong thing, and I have to make sure all the facts are straight. I’m going over chapter 8 this weekend! I think I have 4 more chapters to go now.
It feels like forever since I’ve gone out on the town and let loose. But taking care of business is more important than partying these days. Cant wait for Halloween! Not sure which party to go to, but the Playboy Mansion sounds pretty damn good.
I shot another ‘wife switch’ scene, my 3rd one for Pink Visual. This time, we had a game of Naked Twister, with myself and Lexi Love. My scene was with Rocco Reed, who was actually really hot. It’s always great to work with someone new.
Gotta run and get my hair done right now, then I’m off to one of my best friends’ birthdays in Orange County.
TTYS Mon xoxo
