Welcome To The Official Blog Of Porn Star Monica Mayhem

Before I begin, I just want to say that I’m very proud to have two of my songs ‘Escape’ (which is available on Itunes etc) and ‘In Control’ (soon to be released), used in a movie for Wicked Pictures ‘Alektra’s Anarchy’, directed by Barrett Blade and starring Alektra Blue. I saw the first music video and it looks great! I’m so happy that everyone loved my songs and that inspires me to write again. Just need to find the time to get creative, I’m currently discussing doing a dance track, that’s huge right now and would be so much fun.

Don’t forget you can also buy my book ‘Absolute Mayhem’ from any major bookstore and online at Amazon, Barnes n Noble, Borders, Books A million, etc… Would love a nice review on Amazon for Christmas!

Anyway, so a day in the life of a ‘Pornstar turned Vet’s wife’, goes something like this: Wake up, make breakfast – I go for Low GI foods such as soy/linseed toast with smoked salmon and poached eggs or a bowl of muesli with berries and yoghurt. I then go to the gym – do cardio on treadmill and rowing, sometimes cross-trainer, resistance training (with weights), and abs. If I don’t go to gym, I’ll do a soft sand run or the Bondi-Bronte walk, or yoga.

After training, come home, shower, clean apartment, do laundry, check emails and social network sites, discuss business opportunities with certain contacts, chat to friends overseas on IM or Skype, do research on internet for whatever I need to learn about. Then it’s off to run errands.

Sometimes meet friends or business colleagues for lunch. And sometimes for dinner. But mostly, I love to cook, and have been doing alot of cooking lately, very passionate about it and it’s nice to have someone to cook for. Again, trying to stick to Low GI recipes only, brown rice instead of white, brown pasta instead of regular, eating only certain veges etc, though it’s often hard to stick to in a restaurant.

There’s been so many Christmas parties and Birthdays that I’ve been attending lately. Last night, went to my Husbands’ staff Christmas party and got to meet all of his employees. We went bowling, played laser tag and did karaoke. A lot of fun actually, nice to do something different for a change!

Went out to a couple of clubs in Kings Cross a couple of weeks ago. The music was terrible, trying to be so LA but it wasn’t working for them. I’m actually getting into Dance music again now that I’m back in OZ, really never quite got into hip hop. Going to Ivy this weekend for another birthday, it’s supposed to be the best club in Sydney, we’ll soon find out!

I’m currently talking to a big agency about where I might fit into the market here. I’m really hoping that I can do something on TV, whether it be hosting/presenting/acting, but who knows, the media are very conservative, so I’m assuming all TV programs would hate to have a former pornstar on there, but it’s worth a shot anyway!

I’m off to the gym. Have a great Christmas/Hannukah/or just holidays and Happy New Year! Xoxoxo

know it’s been a while since I’ve blogged. I’ve been completely caught up in not only organizing a wedding, a new home back in Sydney, and co-ordinating my stuff back in LA, which, I really don’t want to talk about. It’s not as simple as ‘I quit porn, and moved on’. It was a whole lot of, chasing up checks not paid to me for final shoots, closing accounts, finalizing deals, and other personal things. Including the unbelievable agony of all the quarantine requirements for my cat. I’m leaving him with a friend in LA for 3 months rather than have him in Australia in a cage for 4 months!….

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So as Every major newspaper in Australia would describe me as ‘From porn queen to vets wife’. Well that may be true, but that’s not all I’m doing. I’m not just a housewife. Though it’s hard to describe exactly what I’ve been doing since I got here other than media interviews, cancelling my life in America, organizing a wedding and building a new home. And my husband, well, he owns an animal hospital, and is one of the best orthopedic surgeons in Australia. He does major surgeries to save animals. And a lot of people respect and love him for saving their pets lives. Great human being, but not your average vet! Hehe. ….

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Since I have moved back to Sydney, I’ve done nothing but socialize, travel, do press interviews, finalize my business and belongings in LA, and get married. Which, has all kept me extremely busy. And now, I just have a couple more social engagements over the next two months, before I can commit to finding an agent out here, and look for some mainstream work. Though you may still see me in certain men’s magazines including Hustler 2011. But I’m hoping to pursue my love of acting, hosting, and music. ….

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So if you follow me on twitter, it may seem that my life has been one big eating and drinking fest since I’ve left Hollywood. Some fights have broken out around me, the usual Aussie pub lifestyle. I’ve almost got in a few fights myself, by filthy attitudes from bitches. And although that is true, however, that is just the break I’ve needed for the longest time. The Townsville bulletin just wrote a little negative piece on me saying I was up there ‘recruiting’ girls, which was not true, I was there purely on a business meeting discussing a tour of Far North QLD. And the ‘Daily Telegraph’ Australia, wrote a nice piece about my marriage a couple of weeks ago, but then today, abused my name by saying that I quoted ‘All Sydney girls were superficial and cheap’, which I never actually said. I did however say, that it was hard to make friends here, particularly in Eastern suburbs, because most of the people who grew up here, grew up with money, and I’ve come from nothing to something (new money) which is completely different and I’m still who I’ve always been. Most girls in Sydney tend to stick with their own little cliques…..

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Anyway, I’ve been extremely busy though it’s nothing to do with porn, just day to day stuff. But I’m working on ideas. Trying to figure out what’s next. And when I finally settle in, back to Aussie life. I’m sure I’ll figure it all out soon enough!….

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FYI, if you have an Amazon account, I’d really appreciate a nice review of my book ‘Absolute Mayhem’. One guy seemed to write mine off to promote Tera Patricks book, which seemed a tad strange considering I’ve had nothing but rave reviews since it’s oct 09 Australian release! Anyway, I’d appreciate any help and will offer a free signed 8×10 poster for doing so! Xoxo mon….

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